Suicide

This is something I usually don't do.  If you ask how I am, I'll say I'm fine or something like that.  But let me be honest with you now, I am not fine.  I'm a total wreck. My thoughts are blurred, my dreams are dead.  I'm seriously considering taking a certain way out...

OKAY STOP RIGHT THERE!

          

"Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain."

That's all it's about.  You are not a bad person, or crazy, or weak, or flawed, because you feel suicidal.  It doesn't even mean that you really want to die - it only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now.  If I start piling weights on your shoulders, you will eventually collapse if I add enough weights ... no matter how much you want to remain standing.  Willpower has nothing to do with it.  Of course you would cheer yourself up, if you could.

Suicide is the act or an instance of intentionally killing oneself.  It's the third leading cause of death in teens and overall in youths ages 10 to 19 years old.  It is becoming more common every year in the United States.  Suicide attempts are usually made when a person is seriously depressed or upset.  A teen who is feeling suicidal may see no other way out of problems, no other escape from emotional pain, or no other way to communicate their desperate unhappiness.

If you or someone you know is suicidal, help is needed!  Below are some helpful links to additional information.  Check them out!

National Mental Health Association

TeensHealth

Suicide Awareness Voices of Education

Teen Suicide

Yellow Ribbon Suicide Prevention Program

Suicide@Rochford.org

National Strategy for Suicide Prevention

 

LOCAL RESOURCES

Family of New Paltz

    Ulster County, 51 N. Chestnut Street

    New Paltz   845-225-8801

    Woodstock  845-679-2485

    Ellenville    845-647-2443

    They specialize in helping people who are feeling suicidal.  Provides a 24-hour hotline and 9-4 Monday - Friday walk-in.

 

Samaritans Suicide Prevention & Crisis Hotline - 518-689-HOPE

    Specializing in all aspects of suicide from prevention & warning signs to how to cope.  Link to webpage.

 

911- Emergency Services

 

 

NATIONAL RESOURCES

 

Yellow Ribbon Suicide Prevention Program

P.O. Box 644

Westminster, CO 80036-0644

303-429-3530  

ask4help@yellowribbon.org

 

AACAP

3615 Wisconsin Avenue

Washington, D.C. 20016-3007

202-966-2891 

meetings@aacap.org

 

AAP National Headquarters - The American Academy of Pediatrics

141 Northwest Point Boulevard

Elk Gove Village, IL 60007-1098

847-434-4000

 

American Association of Suiciodolgy (AAS)

4201 Connecticut Avenue, Suite 310

Washington, D.C. 20008

202-237-2280

 

Suicide Information and Educational Centre (SIEC)

#201, 1615 Avenue SW

Calgary, Alberta, Canada T3 OJ7

403-245-3900